I have the greatest husband.
Some days I like to complain about him but even on those days I know he's a very special person.
Last night I did some stupid text messaging and got in trouble with TT. I realized later that I was putting my nose in where it didn't belong and apologized - but not before there was a nasty wedge between us. I felt so bad about what I had done and then I carried it around with me for most of the day.
Husband and I went for a walk this afternoon and I relayed the whole episode to him. Truthfully, I had not wanted to tell him because I was 'afraid' of what comment he'd make about the situation. Would he want to fix it? Would he reiterate how stupid I'd been? Would he laugh at me?
His only comment, besides some sympathetic hmmms, was to tell me that I had to do what I felt was right. No blame attached, no second guessing how I should have handled it, just kindness.
I'd been feeling like crying all day, and now his sweetness makes me smile.
I love that man.
And I love TT.
And I hope (can't say for sure) I hope, I've learned my lesson.
where I became
5 years ago
Mom, you are so inspiring. I know I don't say that often, but I am so touched by how you and Dad love and respect and continue to learn from and balance each other. Thanks for showing us all what a LONG term loving relationship can look like.
ReplyDeleteAnd, sometimes a little nose-sticking in is what's needed. Someone has to be willing to say what needs saying.
thanks for sharing that mom - it is nice to hear how much you love each other. also i don`t think you should be afraid to let your family know if you are afraid for them - i often do that with the aforementioned... xo
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